Hello old friend,
It’s been about a year since we last spoke, and it’s time I caught you up on what has been happening. As I conclude my second year in this doctoral program, I fondly recall your unwavering support, which was always there, regardless of the circumstances.
As I wrap up my second year in this doctoral program and by some miracle start my third, I fondly recall your unwavering support, which was always there, regardless of the circumstances. There were many moments when I wished I could’ve sought your guidance. While I have to redo my comprehensive exams, navigate many health scares, battled imposter syndrome, and navigated some tough relationships, I know you would’ve told me to put my nose to the ground to persevere. I should’ve looked at our old photo on my desk more often. However, despite these absurd trials, there were some great moments over the past year that I know you would’ve enjoyed.
I ended up having some great reunions with old friends, led cooking workshops for my fellow doctoral students, and (this would have been a point where you would’ve mocked me relentlessly) picked up hobbies that are quintessential for individuals crossing into their thirties. I’ve picked up hobbies that relate to the intricate world of coffee and have embraced my inner oenophile. To balance it all out, I have a newfound aim to run a triathlon (I’ve spent too much on gels and bike equipment).
I also ended up moving in with my lovely partner; you would’ve absolutely enjoyed the space we've created. I also truly cherished the moments and travels done with my family as they, like you, are a constant source of guidance and wisdom. However, the one thing you will be most proud of is that I know what I want to get out of this doctorate and the academic I aspire to be. It took some soul searching, but ultimately, it boiled down to what I truly enjoy in life and what I want to get out of it.
Two years without you is a concept that is hard for many of us to grasp, as we continue to miss you every single day. As I begin the following steps, your amazing character and spirit will continue to be a source of inspiration. As always, our time together will always be absolutely amazing, and I will always continue to treasure it. To you Erin, there will never be enough words to describe how much I miss you and never enough to describe your impact.